Antisocial😶

Posted on November 5, 2016 by Charis Black
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Here’s to Matters that touch.🙍🙍🙍
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I’d give you a second to check what antisocial is.
Tedious?
Well, let me help you out… It is when you do not crave the company of others… At least in this context, that’s what it means. It comes all of a sudden sometimes and it is usually like melancholy, shyness, not having that feeling of belonging or having that feeling of being superior to the other person. Not all the time though but it appears once in a while. You might relate with this too, I don’t know if it happens to everyone or If I am just exclusively different.

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This my new found love for rhymeless poems, (I just don’t understand)

Sometimes, I sit and hear.
I don’t want to
but I listen
the screams and the thrills
the happiness in the air
the joy is contagious…
Tempted
I rise to spy
seeing the excitement for real
on hundreds of visage;
I retreat into my cocoon
of silent solitude.
I wonder if I am
shy, introverted or just uninterested.
I wonder if it’s okay
to be antisocial
Sometimes…

-Charis Black

So yeah, I’d rather be this girl most of the time… Except that I don’t drink coffee; rather, l’d be consuming chocolate and devising new ways to be more creative in life…

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Than these ones…

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So thanks for visiting BlackWordz today. I just needed to share with you guys what I was feeling at the moment. That feeling that makes you want to read all day, sleep all day, eat all day, watch movies all day and not having to talk to anyone but I doubt that happens in the real world. So… I’ll be seeing you again. Feel free to leave a comment though, they are always welcome. Till next time. Chao!

About Charis Black

A Graduate of The University of Ibadan, Studied English Language and Literary Studies. A passionate Writer. Travelling, Reading, Watching movies, Networking and eating confectioneries are top on the list of her many hobbies. "Writing is my life and with my writings , I am making great impact in my world" -Goodness 2016.
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45 Responses to Antisocial😶

  1. lifegoeson292 says:
    November 5, 2016 at 6:47 AM

    I know what you mean. I sometimes get social anxiety. I need my alone time too.

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  2. bernsville says:
    November 5, 2016 at 7:22 AM

    Well, something genius makes one anti-social

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  3. exoticnita54 says:
    November 5, 2016 at 7:34 AM

    Being antisocial has its pros and cons..
    wanting your own company is sometimes needed.. but to be a hermit and socializing with anyone..
    Then to me that’s extreme or is now a problem..

    We all need people around sometimes. We can never do it totally alone

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  4. sooshio says:
    November 5, 2016 at 7:53 AM

    I love the girl who want to sit in and find happiness in her privacy than the girl looking for societies attention by trying to be “cool”

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  5. apoorvachouhan says:
    November 5, 2016 at 11:30 AM

    Ah..well..I m definitely not a party person!! I would like to sit alone and read a good book or watch friends..back to back..rather then indulging in some stupid socializing scheme..
    U r not antisocial…just selectively social😉

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  6. novelistbaba says:
    November 5, 2016 at 2:39 PM

    totally agree with you………why not live like a king in my world than suffer in the real and stupid one….!

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  7. Adepoju Grace says:
    November 5, 2016 at 2:42 PM

    Times of solitude are usually golden. Just spending lone time with your self helps you develop yourself the more. I could be antisocial most times too

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    • Charis Black says:
      November 5, 2016 at 2:47 PM

      Thanks Grace for reading and commenting. You support and love is always felt on the blog. Exactly, because when you mix with the crowd all the time, you will find most times that you begin to lose the essence of yourself.

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  8. Osondu says:
    November 5, 2016 at 4:14 PM

    sometimes we just have to be in our company, listen to ourselves speak. converse with ourselves.

    the world moving thoughts mostly comes during our antisocial session.

    nice one!!!

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  9. buddy71 says:
    November 6, 2016 at 12:47 PM

    Antisocial….yep, describes me somewhat.
    I would choose the woman in the chair instead of the others.
    But the better question is, would they choose me? 😉

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  10. Alex Sarll says:
    November 11, 2016 at 3:41 PM

    Ha I’m antisocial most days.. lol I never really saw it as much of a bad thing. I love your poem and your picture- you have such an interesting blog! And I totally relate to the picture 🙂 those are reasons I choose to be antisocial as well 🙂 Take care!

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    • Charis Black says:
      November 11, 2016 at 4:08 PM

      Wow. Thanks Alex, my asocial friend 😊😊. There is a new development though. I believe the exact word is Asocial because Antisocial is associated with violence. I knew that Antisocial was the general word for it but specifically if you are not violent then you are “Asocial”. 😀😀😀 We are asocial. Thank you so much Alex for liking my blog. 😀😀😁😁😁

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    • Charis Black says:
      November 11, 2016 at 7:32 PM

      Wow, you just said it as clearly as anything can be said. It’s so true, they control the masses. The powers that be…

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  11. koolkosherkitchen says:
    December 4, 2016 at 10:23 PM

    Fascinating blog – you are very talented! I am glad I found you.

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